The following is a transcript of my interview with Dr. Raymond Levy. To find links to the audio files and more information about the interview, please click here.
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Bonica:
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Welcome to the force, Dr. Leavy.
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Dr. Levy:
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Thank you, I'm happy to be here.
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Bonica:
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You earned a doctorate of psychology degree or PsyD from
the Massachusetts school of Professional Psychology in 1982. I believe it's
now called the William James College?
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Dr. Levy:
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It is now the William James College, yes.
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Bonica:
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Okay. Before earning your PsyD you earned a bachelor of
arts in the University of Pennsylvania and an MA from the University of
Hartford. Were your prior studies also in psychology or was the PsyD a new
thing for you?
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Dr. Levy:
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Academically, I wasn't really interested in psychology
as an undergrad. I majored in history, Russian history. I wasn't quite sure
what I was doing with that. My two undergrad courses in psychology, I didn't
do very well because they were very boring to me actually and turned me away
from psychology as opposed to towards psychology. When I graduated, I got a
job teaching at a private school in Connecticut. Because of an area of
interest that I was not aware of, I was asked to be on the counseling staff
there. That's how I became interested in the field of psychology and the
inner workings of people's minds, their psyches. Then I got a Masters degree
at the University of Hartford but decided that that wasn't enough, that I
really needed a doctorate, which is a terminal degree. I really felt I needed
a terminal degree in order to have an expansive career with opportunity.
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Bonica:
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The Masters degree was in counseling?
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Dr. Levy:
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It was called clinical practices. It was what I would
now call a relatively elementary approach to clinical work without the depth.
In many cases the people were not, my fellow students were not going to go on
to get doctoral degrees.
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Bonica:
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It allowed you to practice some sort of counseling or
therapy?
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Dr. Levy:
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Not independently. It would have allowed me to, it did
allow me actually to be on the staff mental health center in Gloucester. This
is a matter of interest, I was living in Hartford, I moved to Boston because
my wife wanted to go to graduate school up here. I sent out 105 letters to
various community clinics, mental health centers looking for interviews and
jobs. I got one response and one job.
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Bonica:
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105?
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Dr. Levy:
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105, I will never forget that. Yes, yes.
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Bonica:
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Why did you choose the Massachusetts School of
Professional Psychology?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's an interesting question. I was working full time
in Gloucester and I decided I wanted a doctoral degree. My wife was here in
school, so I had to stay, I wanted to stay in the Boston area. I didn't
really, the Massachusetts School of Professional Psychology, William James
College was in its early stages, its early days. In fact, I was in the first
graduating class. It had a very flexible program as far as time goes. I was
able to continue to work either 30 or 35 hours a week and be a full time
student in the doctoral program at the Mass school of professional
psychology.
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Bonica:
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You were doing mental health therapy of some sort?
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Dr. Levy:
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I was, yeah.
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Bonica:
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At the same time preferring your professional degree,
your PsyD?
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Dr. Levy:
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Exactly, yes. That's right.
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Bonica:
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Oh, wow. That must have been some good synergies there
between your day-to-day and your education.
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Dr. Levy:
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That is absolutely true. I was studying the very ideas
and approaches that I was using during the day. When my classes started at 4
o'clock it was very familiar to me. For my work on the counseling staff at
the private school in Connecticut, I had become very interested in
psychotherapy, individual psychotherapy. That was really wonderful for me. I
very much enjoyed being in graduate school, especially while I was working at
the same time.
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Bonica:
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Did you develop a specialty while you were in your
training? You mentioned psychotherapy.
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Dr. Levy:
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Right, depends what you mean by a specialty. I would say
individual psychotherapy is a specialty. Nowadays the term specialty is
sometimes used differently. There was no particular age group except adults.
I was interested in adults, but no particular psychiatric diagnosis for
example, like some people say that they specializes in anxiety disorders for
example. I feel I treat anxiety disorders as well as anybody.
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Bonica:
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When you were in your training, did you choose to work
on psychotherapy, were there are other avenues that you could have pursued
while you were doing your graduate work, some other kind of therapy?
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Dr. Levy:
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Oh, yeah. All other kind of therapy, because there was
community consultation that I could have done, organizational development.
There were other possibilities. I was deeply involved with individual
psychotherapy.
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Bonica:
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Could you explain what that means? To a layperson, what
is psychotherapy?
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Dr. Levy:
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It's a little hard now to have a unitary definition
because myself, I think that the concept of psychotherapy has been devalued.
Everybody thinks that they can do psychotherapy, including insurance
companies whose requirements have decreased over the years for those people
who they will reimburse for psychotherapy. It's essentially talk therapy is a
meeting between two people in which both people agree to try to understand
underlying dynamics, underlying emotions that the person who's in the role of
patient is not aware of for the purpose of unlocking the person's energy and
capacities and potential. Different people go about it in a little different
ways. In the context of a trusting relationship and where a person can talk
about things that they might be fearful of talking about or only gradually
becoming aware of. They understand things about themselves and enrich their
possibilities in life.
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Bonica:
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What does success look like when you work with a
patient?
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Dr. Levy:
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Great question. Maybe the best way to get at that is to
give you an example. I'm just starting to work with a man in his 20s who he
and I agree both in his relationships and his work life, he's never really
felt free to pursue what he wants, to say to himself, "This is my
passion, this is what I want to do. This is the woman I want." As
opposed to what he recently had, which was a relationship that he thought was
good enough and he could get by for a while and he felt some sense of
obligation to the woman.
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He was involved with her, but now he's recently broken
up but I think is a good sign, success that he's not settling for being
involved both in his work life and his romantic life in something based on
obligation as opposed to something that is a reflection of who he is, what he
wants in life and a more passionate connection to life. Success would be
helping him remove the obstacles so that he can allow himself to allow what
he wants in the world.
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Bonica:
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I was reading in your bio that you do psychodynamic
therapy. What's the difference between, if this is the right phrasing,
traditional psychotherapy and psychodynamic therapy? That may not be the
right terminology. I'm not familiar.
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Dr. Levy:
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I'm laughing because for many, many decades the only
psychotherapy was psychodynamic psychotherapy. What's happened in the last 15
or 20 years is, and I think with mixed results myself, something called
cognitive behavioral therapy has become, I don't know, certainly more known,
more popular in the public view. The population seems to be somewhat
convinced that this is the magic pill that people have been looking for for a
long time. The difference is that in psychodynamic psychotherapy, we believe
that in our families and in our early experience in life that we adjust to
who our mothers and fathers are. We relate in specific ways because it's necessary
to please them, to get what you want from them because they get upset if you
don't accommodate their values, their ideas, their child rearing strategies.
Everybody adjusts to the environment that you grow up in.
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In some cases that seems flexible enough that people can
go on and understand what they want, what their niche is in the world, who
they are, and they can have a very nice life. In many cases, because of the
very reasons that we have made adjustments growing up, we are hiding from
ourselves. We don't quite know about levels of feelings, levels of wishes,
aspects of ourself that we've had to hide or suppress in order to get along
in the world. A psychodynamic approach tries to help people get beyond the
ways that they've adapted in the world and get to a level of understanding of
themselves that feels to them more genuine, more authentic, more an
expression of who they are with the hope that it leads to satisfaction in the
world.
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Bonica:
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It sounds like what you're describing with psychodynamic
therapy really goes back to parenting and this theme of fatherhood that you
are now deeply engaged with. Is psychodynamic therapy always reaching back to
childhood and your rearing, your family dynamics from ...
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Dr. Levy:
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Good question. In both psychodynamic therapy and
cognitive behavioral therapy, it's always good to know what a person's
background is, what their mother was like, what their father was like, what
their relationships with each of the important people in their lives
including siblings were like. That doesn't mean necessarily that every person
has to relive their early experiences or spend years talking about their
mother or their father. There are patterns that develop in us early.
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It's good for the therapist, me, to be able to recognize
those patterns so that when I see them in adults, I can point them out and we
can have conversations about whether these patterns, in what ways these
patterns are helping in a person's life and in what ways these patterns are
hindering a person's life. Do I believe that the source of our adult
functioning is born in childhood? Yes, I would say that is the case.
Sometimes it's very adaptive. There's no need for therapy and there are no
problems, that's fine. I happen to see the people for whom that's not the
case.
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Bonica:
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Right, yeah. They become to you because that's not the
case. You completed your doctoral work and you became a staff psychologist at
Cambridge Hospital in Cambridge, Massachusetts. You worked there from 1984 to
1994.
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Dr. Levy:
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I worked there as teaching and supervising. I didn't see
patients there. A colleague, one of my mentors, helped me get on the staff
because I thought I had ability and potential, so I would teach trainees,
psychology trainees and supervise social workers and psychologists.
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Bonica:
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Okay. Did you also have a separate private practice at
that point as well?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes. When I graduated MSPP, I set up an office in
Cambridge and started to see patients privately without any institutional connection.
I've been doing that for 34 years.
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Bonica:
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You've always had a private practice, and then you've
also been involved with institutions for it seems like most of your career
one way or another.
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes. I always wanted colleagues, and also I enjoy
teaching but also I wanted to get known because that also would help my
private practice. One thing that I'll mention that I've said to so many
people over the years actually, I made sure, I've always worked a lot of
hours, many, many hours. When I started building my private practice I was
also working at a place called General Medical Associates seeing patients.
It's an outpatient medical facility affiliated with Mass General, but
operating independently in western Massachusetts. They were pediatrics and
internal medicine and other specialties, dermatology and psychiatry. I was a
psychologist on the staff. The doctors there would refer patients to me.
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I was working, I don't quite remember, maybe 30 hours
there, 35 while I was building my private practice. It was absolutely
necessary. I tell all the people who are involved in training with me that
you can't just hang up a shingle and expect to be busy full-time. You have to
be working at some institution and gradually build a reputation and get
referrals. While you're doing that you're working many, many hours, 50 to 60
hours.
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Bonica:
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Is that a fairly standard way of the building a
practice? Do most providers, psychology in particular, or do you find follow
people the same path you did?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes, absolutely. For the people who want to build a
private practice after training, they always have an institutional
affiliation, maybe on a part-time basis or three-quarter time basis. Then
they build their practice out of meeting new colleagues, getting referrals,
making referrals, teaching, and presenting papers at conferences local and
national, and writing so that they are known. Yeah, it's a lot of work.
There's no way around it, it's a lot of hours, it's a lot of work. If you love
it like I have, you're very fortunate. I feel very fortunate to have my work
as a companion throughout my whole life. Even though I'm actually at or
beyond the age of retirement, although that's a moving target these days, I
have no interest in retiring, I just like what I do, I want to continue to do
it. I recommend to people if you love what you do, it pays dividends over the
decades.
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Bonica:
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I like to as clinicians that I speak to about their
sense of competence as a practitioner. When did you look at yourself in the
mirror and say I am a doctor? I have achieved the competence and I'm an
independent practitioner? Was it when you finished your schooling, before
that, sometime after?
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Dr. Levy:
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I would say after I finished my schooling because when I
went back to the doctoral program, I realized as it often happens in life, I
didn't know what I didn't know because I had only had a two-year masters
degree before. Then when I went to the doctoral program I just met different
people and I met maybe a more gifted faculty. I understood that what I was
doing, to be good at it is actually more complicated. I was supervised by
multiple people. It took me a while. I would say after graduation I felt I
was qualified to see patients one year after graduation because we needed a
certain number of hours in order to sit for the state licensing them
postdoctoral after getting the degree.
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I had a growing sense of competence through my
supervision which I continued as I was in practice. The practice of
psychotherapy may be a little different than some professions. There are
still cases where I get confused, where I'm not certain. I will go for a
consultation to my mentor to talk about the feeling that I'm missing
something. Usually after a conversation, maybe two, I'm back on track and I
understand more about the patient and more about the work that we need to do.
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Bonica:
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You mentioned mentors, that's a theme that I like to
explore with my guests. You said you have a mentor now? Or you did?
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Dr. Levy:
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He's still alive.
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Bonica:
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Do you still consult with him?
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Dr. Levy:
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I do sometimes, I do. Sometimes it's over a meal. It's
not as formal, but yes, he likes to hear me present cases or problems with
some of my cases. I value that very highly. I met him my first job after my
doctoral program at General Medical Associates, which I mentioned. He was the
psychiatrist who hired me there. I would meet with him and then be supervised
by him, and it really clicked very nicely. I learned a lot of the, if I came
out of graduate school 60 to 70% toward full competency, he got me above 90
or 95 let's say. I'm very grateful to him. He's been a very important part of
my life. I think I grew personally by being supervised by him on my cases
also. He was not my therapist but I grew personally. When I published two
books, I was very clear that these books would never have happened if I
hadn't met him and if he hadn't been my mentor. I'm very grateful to him.
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Bonica:
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You mentioned that he supervised you. Is that a requirement
for, you had your doctoral degree.
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Dr. Levy:
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I did.
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Bonica:
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Were you required to have a clinician, a psychiatry
supervisor? A physician supervisor?
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Dr. Levy:
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No. There's one year after I had my degree where I had
to accumulate 1600 hours in practice time being supervised in order to sit
for the state licensing exam.
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Bonica:
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Okay, so he was a supervisor during that period.
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes, that was required. After that it was entirely
voluntary but advisable. Most people in my field continued to be supervised
for many many years, developed what's called a peer supervision group. People
we've met along the way in our training, who we liked, talked well with,
learned from, taught, maybe a group of 4 or 5 who meet monthly, talk about cases.
That's in addition to an individual supervisor because we all feel, and this
is a little different then maybe the cultural beliefs these days. We all feel
our work is very complex and we look at factors that make it complex and we
think our work is better for it, although I think the culture now and some of
the claims for quicker fixes, don't think it has to be as complicated as many
of us who think psychodynamically do believe.
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Bonica:
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You had a senior mentor who actually had some formal
relationship with you that was overlooking your cases?
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Dr. Levy:
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It was a paid supervision. I would pay him for his time.
He didn't have any, he had legal responsibility but he trusted me to present
the cases that I wanted help with and that I would learn from him in a way
that would help all my work with my cases.
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Bonica:
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Then you also mentioned a peer group that you built over
time. You still use that function?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes, and that's entirely, again, voluntary. By now
they're thirty year relationships or more and it functions very well. We
could talk about the competing new ideas and how to adjust approaches based
on some new ideas as needed and a high level of trust and learning that goes
in that group.
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Bonica:
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You mentioned that your mentor was a psychiatrist.
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Dr. Levy:
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He is a psychiatrist.
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Bonica:
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Could you briefly for folks who may not understand the
difference, what's the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist?
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Dr. Levy:
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Right, good question. Psychiatrists went to medical
school for 4 years and then specialized in psychiatry, decided that that
would be their specialty and did what's called a residency, a 3 year
residency at a medical institution. I'm affiliated with Mass General. I have
helped over the years to teach and supervise some of the psychiatry residents
there. They graduate residency and then take an exam, and they now are
licensed in psychiatry. A psychologist goes to graduate school in psychology
and does not have a medical background necessarily.
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Can't prescribe medication except in I think New Mexico
and Louisiana where if you take a course with a certain number of hours in
psychopharmacology and neurobiology, you're then permitted to actually
prescribe medication. These are underserved areas where the culture believed
it would be worthwhile to train psychologists so that they could prescribe
and work in these mostly rural underserved areas. The education is very
different. A psychologist is trained more as a psychotherapist. Some
psychiatrists enjoy that and practice psychotherapy, but more these days are
involved with neuroscience and psychopharmacology.
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Bonica:
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The reason I ask, I was interested in you explaining
that difference. When you said that your mentor was a psychiatrist, that
surprised me because I typically think of you go to see a psychiatrist to get
that psychopharmacology usage. How is it that you came to have a psychiatrist
as your mentor?
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Dr. Levy:
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There's a branch of psychiatry that is interested in
psychotherapy and interested in becoming psychoanalysts. This was someone who
had had advanced training in psychoanalysis and spent his time doing
psychotherapy and not prescribing medication. He was excellent and focused in
the areas that I wanted to learn about.
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Bonica:
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Is there competition between schools of thought about
using psychotherapy as opposed to pharmaceuticals? Or is it find the right
tool for the right problem?
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Dr. Levy:
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The idea in most cases is find the right tool for the
right problem. At its worst, there are those who don't understand that
changing the brain through medication for some, through psychotherapy for
some, for medication and psychotherapy, that these are the best approaches
depending on the patient. There's some that have an ideology that they're following
but they've missed the boat because all the rest of us understand that
psychotherapy probably changes the brain, and it's the better way to do it
for some people. Psychopharmacology certainly changes the brain and it a
better way to do it for some people. The combination very often works better
than either one alone.
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Bonica:
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You have maintained overlapping academic appointments
along with institutional roles and your private practice. In 1986 you were
appointed as a clinical instructor in psychology in the Department of
Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. How did you come to start teaching at
Harvard Med?
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Dr. Levy:
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That could be a little misleading. When I was on the
staff at Cambridge Hospital, that comes with an appointment to Harvard Medical
School. I didn't actually teach medical students at Harvard Medical School.
The same is true when I moved to Mass General Hospital. The same is true, I
have an appointment at Harvard Medical School, but it's through a hospital
affiliation. I don't personally teach the medical students at Harvard Medical
School.
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Bonica:
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Oh, okay. You were a clinical instructor. Did that mean
you were teaching?
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Dr. Levy:
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I was teaching. I taught psychology students or trainees
at Cambridge Hospital and then at Mass General. I've taught, again,
psychiatry residents, psychology, interns. In fact, now that I think about
it, for a long time once a month I was teaching Harvard medical students who
were doing a rotation on the inpatient psychiatric unit at Mass General.
There would be a handful, 4 to 8. I would teach them about psychodynamic
psychotherapy for one or two hours a month. They would be at the hospital
already. I never taught a big Harvard Medical School class. These were the
Harvard medical school students.
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Bonica:
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Who were doing rotations at the hospital you were at.
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Dr. Levy:
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Exactly.
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Bonica:
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Okay. In 94 you left Cambridge Hospital and you took an
appointment as a senior assistant psychologist in psychiatry and a clinical
associate in psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. What
made you decide to change your affiliation from Cambridge to Mass Gen?
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Dr. Levy:
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Good question. I think the culture of Mass General
suited me better than the culture of Cambridge Hospital. I had two very close
colleagues who were at Mass General. I liked working with them, I liked
spending time with them. One of them brought me on to be a supervisor and
teacher in the psychology program there. One was a psychiatrist. Actually,
one was the assistant chief of psychology also. She brought me on there. It
just seemed frankly, Mass General is a very large place, has a very large
department of psychology. It just seemed as though there would be more
opportunity there, which has turned out to be the case.
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Bonica:
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Did you work inpatient, I didn't ask this earlier. Did
you work inpatient and outpatient?
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Dr. Levy:
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I never worked inpatient. During my training I worked at
Mount Auburn Hospital inpatient unit for a year. I never was a psychologist
on an inpatient unit, no.
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Bonica:
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Okay. What's the difference between doing that kind of
practice and the practice you do?
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Dr. Levy:
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It's very, very different. The patients of course,
inpatients are sicker. That's why they're there. They have more severe forms
of mental illness. Treatment often focuses on medication, psychopharmacology.
Over the years of course the insurance environment is changed. Patients don't
stay on an inpatient unit very long. It's not very satisfying to someone
who's interested in psychotherapy because the patient is there for 5 days, 7
days. You meet with them a few times, and then they're gone. I tend to meet
with people longer than that in psychotherapy.
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Bonica:
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What would you say are some of the most common
misperceptions people have around psychotherapy that you find yourself having
to correct? If you're at a cocktail party and someone says, "What do you
do?" "I do psychotherapy." What do they assume that's wrong?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's interesting because I would say now that the
culture has become very educated about psychotherapy. For a long time, maybe
in the 70s, 60s and 70s, it was almost necessary to be in psychotherapy to be
considered educated, informed, sophisticated person in certain circles.
People were in psychotherapy and mostly talk therapy. There's always the
group that feels if you have to go talk to somebody, it means there's
something wrong with you. That's only for sick people. That's not for
relatively healthy people. It takes forever. No, it doesn't take forever. Oh,
I think I can talk to my friends and there's no difference between talking to
my friends and talking to you in therapy. No, that's not true either. We're
trained to hear in different ways than friends are. Those are some of the
misconceptions I would say.
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Bonica:
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In 2010 you received a grant to conduct a study on the
role of fatherhood on adult development. This study evolved as I understand
into the fatherhood project today. Is that correct?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's exactly right, yes.
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Bonica:
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What was your initial focus of your research? What was
the grant initially written to do?
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Dr. Levy:
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It is a grant, but it's a little misleading. We did
start, we started as a research organization and we were funded actually buy
a private donor. I was funded by a private donor, which made it possible for
me to have a small salary and hire 2 people. We did a study trying to
determine whether the relative importance in fathering of, supervising your
kids and disciplining your kid's versus the warmth and supportive approach.
We did a study which I would say was inconclusive and not as important as I
would have liked it to be at that point. What we've continued to do and the
way that I've changed the organization I think is more vibrant, more
important, and more central to the questions about fatherhood that need to be
addressed.
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This is interesting because this happened in addition to
my continuing my private practice, continuing to be involved in teaching and
training at Mass General. This was just an add-on to my professional
responsibilities, which I loved. I asked this person if he would fund my work
and he said yes. I was thrilled. This is good fortune on my part. How did
this happen or why me? Let's see, I had been in practice for almost 30 years.
I had built something of a reputation and was well-respected, had worked
hard. This person of means respected me and trusted me. It was hard won after
30 years I would say. It's a little entrepreneurial frankly which I'm
enjoying, although it's implicated and it's much more pressure than I've ever
felt in any other part of my work. I'm sighing as I say that.
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It came from consistent hard work. It's not as though
this is what I wanted to do 30 years ago and after 5 years I was just looking
for money for it. It came to me after many, many years of work. It also came
to me, I should say this. There's a personal element to it because when my
kids grew up and where out of the house, I missed them. One of the most
critical parts of my life had been my being their father. I was very
committed to being their father, very involved in their day to day lives. I
enjoyed that very much, found it very satisfying. I thought I could continue
to make a contribution to the world as a father and studying fatherhood if I
could start this organization.
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That was another reason that I get it in addition to the
fact that frankly the culture is changing it this way now. Millennials want
to be very involved with their kids all the time. Women since the feminist
movement are working much more. A father can't just think oh, my wife's
taking care of the kids. He has much more front-line care taking
responsibility. Then there's the question, does he have the skills for it?
The nature of the culture is changing. Fathers need advice, need programs,
need skill building. There needs to be a research on fathers, which we're
doing also. This is all very exciting to me. It came to me relatively late
age. I hope I'm going to live for 20 more years, but came to me just the
terror I turned 60, really. I hope to have this as my work until I can't work
anymore.
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Bonica:
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The original idea in 2010, was it primarily research or
was it service-oriented?
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Dr. Levy:
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It was primarily research, but we didn't have the data.
The data we had, actually very interesting, comes from the longest
longitudinal study of adult development in the world. It's called the Harvard
study of adult development. It was started with the classes of 1939, 40, 41,
and 42 at Harvard, which includes John F. Kennedy's class, by the way. The
way research was done then was not in nearly up to the standards of modern
research. The research had to be adapted, we had to make interpretations of
information that had been gathered. It all just seemed a little uncomfortable
for me. Not quite up to the standards I wanted.
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After a year where it cost basically a little over
$100,000 to publish one paper, I decided that this was not the right way to
go. I heard someone who had been doing some work in the field in fatherhood.
We made the fatherhood project more program based for a while and developed
several programs in the community. I also hired a social media webmaster
person research assistant, administrative assistant all rolled into one. We
are the core group, been together the longest. As our programs developed, I
again saw a better opportunity to do research.
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I hired a senior researcher at Mass General who's
interested in fatherhood and had done his dissertation 40 years ago on
fathers. We then embarked on a research program and the department of
obstetrics at Mass General Hospital, in which we surveyed in 2 weeks 401 men
who accompanied their wives and partners to prenatal visits. We got a lot of
good data from that. The paper is probably ready to be published. There will
be more than one paper but the first one in another month. We are now
expanding and doing a similar survey at the community health centers in
Chelsea and Revere, which are also Mass General health centers. We have
basically pretty a robust research program.
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In fact, I just hired a halftime research fellow to help
us. There's been this gradual evolution of this nonprofit business, if you
want to call it that, of this fatherhood project within the Department of
Psychiatry. I do want to point out to everyone, we don't get any support from
Mass General or the Department of Psychiatry. All our money is either earned
through our programs, that's a small percentage, or through donors. My
original donor has continued to support us every year. In fact, I've been
fortunate enough, he says if we raise a million dollars he'll give another
million dollars.
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All of this happens just because I've worked hard and
things have gone well. People seem to want to help. It's not a moneymaker for
anybody. It's not venture capital money by any means. It's social capital
money I guess is really what it is. It's been very satisfying for me. I love
doing what I'm doing. I love being the executive director of the fatherhood
project. There have been challenges. It's going well. What do I do? I
supervise my director of programs, I supervise, I help to develop programs
with program director, the curricula for applying certain concepts of
parenting and fathering, I help develop with him.
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I supervise the social media website person. I collaborate
with the researcher in doing this research. I travel around the country
making presentations. I was in Richmond, Virginia. I'm going to Tulsa,
Oklahoma, of all places I never thought I'd go to make a presentation at a
conference of all conferences, the women's empowerment conference in Tulsa,
Oklahoma. They want to know about men because they to their credit understand
that men have an influence on women. I do that. I make presentations at
conferences. These are the American Public Health Association conference in
Denver in October. This will all continue.
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Bonica:
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What is important about publishing in peer-reviewed
journals, I'm assuming that's what you mean when you say we're going to
publish a paper. It's not something like in Psychology Today or something.
What you're describing for the most part I think are academic conferences.
Why is it important for you to be participating in that literature and in
that community?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yeah, good question. There are a couple reasons.
Essentially it's about spreading the word. Our findings in obstetrics about
the men who appear with their wives, I'm hoping that when we present the
findings and what this suggests for running an obstetrics service a little
differently so that it's a little more father friendly and providing services
for fathers who more and more want to be very involved with their infants but
they don't know how and they want to be supportive of their pregnant wives
and partners but don't know how, that if we can run programs, it will keep
families intact more. The data shows that the fathers who are involved early
in their kid's development from birth are more likely to stay involved with
their families.
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I'm presenting because I'm hoping that the word will get
out, there will be other people from obstetrics services there that want to
know more, how do you do this, what are the mechanics of it. Will you come
consult to us so we can do it? It will basically change the way obstetrics
services are run, which I would see as institutional change to get fathers
more emotionally involved with their kids, which all the research shows is
positive. Any way that we can spread the word and help make institutional
changes in ways that we believe are positive, I'm ready to do it.
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Bonica:
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Why is it important that it go into an academic journal?
I'm going to make a, Journal of Obstetrics for example. It's a peer-reviewed
publication. Why is it important to do that rather than Boston Globe?
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Dr. Levy:
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The Boston Globe is important.
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Bonica:
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I didn't diminish that, but [crosstalk 00:42:38]
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Dr. Levy:
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You're different, they're right. Number one, a
peer-reviewed journal means that the work we've done doing research is
respected at the highest levels of science requirements for research, which
then tends to give it credibility and validates its significance, its
importance. It's different than if I just stood up and say let's get fathers
more involved in obstetrics services. Anybody can say that. We've done the
science so we have the research that supports it and the value of it. It just
has more power. It's about power I guess and authority. Coming out of
academia, I think our work can be more influential.
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Bonica:
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In 2011 you mentioned you started to transition from
just doing research to doing some programming. Your initial expansion
included working with some schools, some local schools, and then also working
with some Massachusetts prisons. How did you come to make that jump, and why
those target populations?
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Dr. Levy:
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That also is a good question. We were told when we got
started that fathers are hard to find. They don't like to come to programs.
They don't like to come to groups. They're hard to find. They don't think
they need any help or they don't want to go out of their way. They're
working. It's complicated. What we did was first of all we were interested in
of underserved populations. The incarcerated dads that I taught in Shirley
and Concord prisons, they are clearly underserved. We wanted to get them more
programs. I wanted to teach them about staying involved with their kids even
when they were in prison. I wanted to teach them certain things about skills,
about child development. I did that 4 or 5 times. They're certainly an
underserved population.
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Then teen dads, there are kids who either because they
believe that being a man is having a child, get girls pregnant at very early
ages. They find themselves having the responsibilities of fatherhood. Many of
them don't stay around, but some do. Some take it seriously and they want to
be a good father. That's an underserved population. We ran groups for teen
dads also. Then we decided, okay, there are teen dads, but why not do a
prevention program that could decrease the number of teen dads? We went into
10th grade health classes and talked to some of the kids there about 5
requirements for being a good father, after which they all realized, I'm not
any of those things. I can't be a father. I don't know if it's had an impact
or it hasn't, but I hope so. We were focused on underserved populations.
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Bonica:
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The programs that you have today, you mentioned teen
dads, incarcerated dads. Some other ones that you have listed on your website
include becoming a dad, father readiness for adolescents, which is that the
prevention program?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's the prevention program, yeah.
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Bonica:
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Dads matter in pediatrics, what's that?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's a very successful program that we have in which
it's held that in the Revere community health center. Chelsea and Revere are often
first stops for immigrants who come to the Boston area. They're not well
situated and they tend to be lower income dads. They also have difficulty
being involved with their kids for various reasons. What we do is 14 times a
year on Saturday mornings, we have a group where dads and kids come and do
activities, play with their kids for a part of the day.
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These are families who are referred from the
pediatricians at Revere Health Center and some of the social service programs
that are embedded in the health center. They are at risk families, possibly
at risk dads, meaning they have been incarcerated, they're unemployed, they
have ADD, they don't really trust the world very well. They get referred to
our program and they get involved and come on Saturday mornings, spend time
with their kids, which their partners love of course. Then the last 20 to 30
minutes, we pull them out of the program and teach them something about
fathering skills, parenting skills. Each week there would be a different
topic involving empathy, the importance of attachment, positive discipline
strategies, executive function. Things like this that are critical for
fathering. It's very successful.
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Then twice a year the program director organizes trips.
One trip was to the Children's Museum. There were 17 families that came. Then
a trip to the Stone Zoo, and Stone, again, I think 18 to 20 families came.
There's a nice sense of community. They feel like they belong somewhere.
They're not strangers in a strange land. It's a good way to get them involved
in the health center. Maybe their kids get better healthcare, maybe they get
better healthcare. Maybe they make use of social services that are housed in
the health center. It's a way of getting disenfranchised dads, underserved
dads involved in what the system can offer them.
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Bonica:
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Then the last program that we hadn't talked about was
divorcing dads.
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Dr. Levy:
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Yeah. This is a very good idea. This is a program, a
class, an 8 session class that I and my director of programs, but I've been
the main force in this, hold for dads somewhere in the process of divorce.
The purpose of it is it's the same concept that guides just about all of our
work, to increase the emotional engagement of fathers in their children's
lives. Even as divorced dads and as nonresident dads, first of all we talk
about the critical importance of their involvement and that kids can have
very good outcomes even with a nonresident dad, as long as the dad is engaged
in their life. Each week we have a curriculum and each week there is a
subject that is raised. Again, some of these same concepts, empathy,
attachment, positive discipline, coparenting which is often difficult, and
the importance of maintaining contact with their day to day lives.
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Bonica:
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How do you evaluate the effectiveness of any of these
programs?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yeah. Okay, this is a sticky point that I'm not proud
of. We haven't done that yet and this is one of the reasons that I just hired
a halftime research fellow. She and I and the director of research are going
to figure out how to do this, which sounds easier than it really is. We want
to make the programs evidence-based and demonstrate effectiveness. This is
next on the agenda.
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Bonica:
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It sounds like a good research project for future publications
classes.
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Dr. Levy:
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Absolutely, yeah. Absolutely.
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Bonica:
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I'm curious, your professional career leading up to your
involvement with the fatherhood project was primarily on an individual basis.
Based on your description of psychotherapy you probably got a chance to hear
a lot about dysfunction in father-son, father-daughter relationships I
assume. How did you make the jump to trying to teach people how to do it
positively?
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Dr. Levy:
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You mean how to teach ...
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Bonica:
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How to be a father.
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Dr. Levy:
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How to be a father?
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Bonica:
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Parenting doesn't seem to necessarily be directly in the
field that you had worked up until that point.
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Dr. Levy:
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I suppose that's true, although often in psychotherapy,
a parent might say, "I'm having trouble with my son, my daughter."
And then describe situations. We go into the father's own history of his life
with his parents. Then there's also room for suggestions about parenting.
Somewhere in the back of my mind, maybe that father wouldn't have had to ask
me that question or had that problem if he understood more about fathering
skills. There is the idea of prevention, which ...
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Bonica:
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What I'm trying to get it is how does your history
inform your practice now with the fatherhood project?
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Dr. Levy:
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I'm not sure that it's going to be as direct as you
might want it to be. Over the years I worked with a lot of fathers, a lot of
men. When I started the fatherhood project, the question really was what's
important to think about with fathers? What's important is how to be a
father, how to be a good father. There is not one concept, there's not only
one way to be a good father. If we're serving the underserved population,
there's a lot of father absence or superficial involvement and a lot of pain.
One of the things I became aware of as I was teaching the incarcerated dads
is a huge percentage of the dads had absent fathers, never knew a father.
There they are sitting in prison.
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Bonica:
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Absent as a result?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes. Now they're absent, yes. Some of them very
painfully so because they know what they've done. The idea came, if we can
get fathers involved, maybe we'll save a few people from going to prison and
repeating their father's absence.
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Bonica:
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You said there's not one way to be a good father.
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Dr. Levy:
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That's right.
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Bonica:
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There's got to be some baseline ideas you've got. It
sounds like being present is one of them. What are the baseline things that
you've learned either through your practice or through your work with the
fatherhood project that form the basis of what you try to teach as being a
good father?
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Dr. Levy:
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As you pointed out, being present is one. Be in their
lives, be there for them. That doesn't mean every day necessarily, but
generally speaking being involved, you can have a separate life also. The
important thing is that your child feels you're there for them. That's number
one. Number two, emotional regulation. In order to be a good father, you have
to have certain personality characteristics. One is you need to be able to
regulate your own emotions because you don't want to be emotionally
disregulated with your child or even in front of your child. This often takes
the form of anger. It's just not good to teach your kids.
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First of all, you hurt them when you're very angry at
them, when you're disregulated. Secondly, it's not necessary if you're trying
to teach them. You don't have to scream at them and yell at them. Thirdly,
that's no way to be an adult to go around yelling every time you're upset
about something. In order to be a good father you have to be able to regulate
your own emotions.
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You also have to be able to read another person. You
need to understand your child's experience and you need to know that it's
your job to understand your child's experience. Who is this child? Who is
this other person? When are they happy? When are they said? What makes them
scared? What are their strengths? What are their weaknesses? I would say the
more you can actually understand and know your child, the better the father
you would be as well. Then there are the basic practical things like
supporting, contributing to support of the family.
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Bonica:
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Economically speaking.
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes, absolutely. Economically keeping the family out of
poverty, which is never good. It makes life hard for everybody. Practical
things around the house are with the kids, knowing how to change his diaper.
You don't have to, but just being involved in some way I guess is the point.
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Bonica:
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Talking a little bit about the mechanics of running an
organization like this, is the fatherhood project a separate entity, a legal
entity like a 501(c)(3) or is it a subordinate organization to the psychiatry
department?
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Dr. Levy:
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That's an interesting question. Okay, we're in the
psychiatry department. Why are we in the psychiatry department? Because I'm
in the psychiatry department and I started it. I wanted it to be affiliated
with Mass General. That's why we're in the psychiatry department. Nobody ever
tells me what to do. Sometimes I'm told what not to do but no one ever tells
me what to do. I get a lot of help. If I want the chief of psychiatry to come
to some meeting and say certain things, he's happy to do it. We are not a
separate 501(c)(3). We are under the Mass General umbrella 501(c)(3). All our
funding is independent of the department and the hospital.
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Bonica:
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Okay, so they provide you a place to operate. They must
provide you some administrative support in terms of financial management,
that kind of thing I guess, but not the actual finances.
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Dr. Levy:
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That is correct, yes. Sometimes the development office
helps with fundraising. Records are kept on an online portal that I have
access to where my money is. It's all organized and I can see it comes in and
comes out payroll and medical benefits and all of that. That all happens
through the hospital, yes.
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Bonica:
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You mentioned before that you get no funding from Mass
General, that you get some small amount from charges, that you're able to get
some small amount of funding from the ability to charge for some of your
programs, but most of it's donations?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yes, the majority by far is donations, yes. Absolutely.
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Bonica:
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How do you go about, you mentioned you work with the
development department.
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Dr. Levy:
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What I did actually is different. I actually hired
somebody within the fatherhood project as our development officer who raised
money for us. Then when it seemed as though her work was done, I'm just now
hiring another person actually within the fatherhood project to raise money,
organize meetings that I'll speak at, get people on the advisory board who
might make donations or might know other people who will make donations. We
do it.
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Bonica:
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You mentioned an advisory board. Do you have an advisory
board for the fatherhood project?
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Dr. Levy:
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I'm just about done forming it right now, yes.
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Bonica:
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What advice would you have to folks who are interested
in social entrepreneurship, trying to put together programs like the
fatherhood project? Based on your experiences, what's been most challenging
and what were the secrets of your success? If I wanted to develop a program
not necessarily to work with fathers but mothers or some other socially
important topic.
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Dr. Levy:
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Without question the most challenging aspect has been
funding our program. The academic aspects, the research, the publishing, the
presentations, all that is very familiar to us. That becomes the easy part,
the real content of our work. The hardest thing is keeping it going through
funding. There have been times where I've been chasing down money because I
can see that in 4 months I'm not going to be able to make payroll. I've been
able to do it the whole time but it really wears on me. At 3 in the morning,
that's what I'm thinking about. I'm not thinking about the group I'm going to
run or the next divorcing dads class. I'm thinking about how to get a
breakthrough with funding.
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Bonica:
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That was actually my next question is what keeps you up
at night, so it's funding.
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Dr. Levy:
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That's what keeps me up at night, that's it.
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Bonica:
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Other than funding, what's the most challenging aspect
of leadership and leading an organization like the fatherhood project that
you faced? Or is funding really the single issue?
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Dr. Levy:
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I think I've been good at establishing relationships,
working relationships with people, and making sure people were in the right
positions and doing what they're good at, which I consider to be part of the
requirements of a good leader. Maybe there was one issue early on, because
the person I hired to be director of programs had been doing things in the
fatherhood field for 10 or 12 years. His involvement predated my involvement.
He was working for me. There was some tension about who's the leader, when,
is he going to accept some of my ideas which are a little different than what
he had been doing. I had to explain that and make it work for him so that he
wasn't resentful and angry.
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Now we have an excellent working relationship and we are
expanding our programs, just yesterday actually, interestingly in New
Hampshire. We'll probably be involved in a lot of the schools in New
Hampshire or some of the schools in New Hampshire. We're presenting I think
it's August 3rd at a conference, a statewide conference. We're going to
present some of our ideas about fathers in the schools. Schools can, if they
want, it's not just us. There will be 600 people there. There are maybe 15
experts, and we're one of the experts.
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The schools can decide, oh, we want a fatherhood program
in our school. Then they would hire us or they could decide, oh, we want to
advance our technology in the school. Then they would hire somebody else.
John and I worked very well. We had a wonderful meeting yesterday. That was a
challenge at first to make sure our relationship was solid, our working
relationship was solid. That was another challenge in addition to the
fundraising.
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Then there's always the question of priorities. I've had
to mix, I've had multiple considerations, criteria or programs, which ones
are going to bring in some money to relieve some of the pressure for
fundraising. Is that what we really want to do or do we want to serve the
underserved lower income population, which basically we end up being
volunteers for? We're doing 30 to $35,000 worth of work at Revere Community
Health Center for $3000. That can't go on forever. Then divorcing dads, that
actually I charge for membership and we make some money on that program. How
to balance that, and our mission has more to do with the underserved
population, but we need some money or there won't be any population that
we're serving. That's been another challenge.
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Bonica:
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In conclusion, I teach young folks who are going to
hospital administration. What should they know about mental health
psychology, working with the psychiatry department? What should they
understand about that?
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Dr. Levy:
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You know how in real estate when you go buy a house,
everybody says to you, "Location, location, location."
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Bonica:
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Yes.
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Dr. Levy:
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In this work there are two words. I would say the first
word, relationships, relationships, relationships. You have to make good
relationships so that people want you to be doing what you're doing and will
support any kind of our nonprofit work, and then competence, competence,
competence. You have to be good at what you're doing or you're not going to
be able to have an organization on your own. Even if you are good at what
you're doing, then you have to worry about relationships, relationships,
relationships. I think that's the magic combination.
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Bonica:
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Competence and relationships?
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Dr. Levy:
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Yeah.
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Bonica:
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Thank you so much for your time today. I've really
enjoyed this.
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Dr. Levy:
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I have too. I'm happy to do it. Thanks a lot.
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